On the off chance there are some out there still reading this, I just want to be sure my last post was not offensive. I have very little experience with cancer and I don't pretend to be able to even imagine how difficult that would be for someone or their loved ones. Someone close to me does have it now, but she lives far away so I'm not living in the reality of it everyday. I know it will one day take her, but for now I'm trying not to dwell on it. She means the world to me and she has been so strong. In the beginning she was not, but when she is down she keeps to herself(don't we all). She doesn't want her loved ones to see her that way. As horrific as cancer is, She is thankful for it. I am as well because I know it has brought much needed healing to her family.
As a kid I watched my parents fight about different things. I don't really have any other parents to compare them to so I can't really say whether they were normal fights couples have or not. I couldn't even say what most of them were about except the ones that were about me. We only ate as a family on holidays. My father came home late so we kids ate without him. I do remember spending time with him in the evening before I went to bed so it couldn't have been that late. My own husband gets home a little later because of his job commute so we eat late every night. But home schooling has given us the ability to be more flexible than my Mom was able to be. We had school early the next day. As I got older, I remember my Father being home less and less and the fights seemed to intensify. I remember one night when I was thirteen. I could hear them yelling through the wall. My mom found me crying and I told her I didn't want them to get a divorce. She told me...
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